Why do we even write these things? I am mad. At a lot.
My husband is being good – so yay on that.
But my sister is being a twit – my good friend is never ever ever able to talk.
Little heartbreaking here.
My sister works 72 miles from home – a long drive for not a lot of money.
She used to save money if she was working a closing shift then an opening shift by just staying at work – slept in her car. Well now that she got internet boyfriend who lives only 38 miles from work She decided that she needs to save money by spending the night over there – 6 nights per week.
SO I asked her are you moving in to his mom’s house with him? she says no he would like that but I only do it because it is easier for driving to work (sure…)
I told her well you spend every night you can there – seems you are already living there.
She comes back with well that is not what I am trying to do I just can’t make everyone happy. I will probably end up moving in with him – we are eventually going to get married or that is the plan.
I do not want to alienate my sister – I love her to bits – but…this whole thing make me want to barf. This guy is no good. There I said it. I tried to like him but I feel like I can’t even learn to like him now. My sister was married once – and she has had a few long term boyfriends but never thought I would see the day when she decided to move out into her boyfriend’s momma’s house.
Besides that when I asked if he was okay that she didn’t want kids -( Oh no he wants kids!) With who? You are planning on getting pregnant?!? (well no not PLANNING but if it happens…)
So you are gonna shack up with some athiest and have his baby – your first baby at 36 years old?
Ok I officially do not know who you are now.
Number two – my dear friend – another person I used to adore but now it seems I don’t know – I would like her to visit – but she is always busy. I visit her – but her house is total chaos, never one moment of quiet. My house is almost always less chaotic many times over. right now – pure silence. She says I can’t visit – have to do laundry. Are you washing it by hand? no she has two kids in public school, her sister lives with her and her kids go to school also.
As I look ahead to Sukkot..I am just so depressed. no one is interested but me. holidays are blah when you are the only one who cares…